Connected Christian Wife | Godly Marriage Advice for Wives Seeking Intimacy in Marriage, Biblical Rest, Effective Communication, Boundaries
Do you want to connect deeper with your husband? Is he too laid-back or passive, and you feel like you NEED to do EVERYTHING? Is this affecting intimacy in your marriage? How can you connect when you feel like you’re always carrying the weight of the whole family on your shoulders? Girl, you are in the right place! Welcome to the Connected Christian Wife podcast where I give you the strategies you need to lay down the mental load and be physically and emotionally connected with your husband, so you can have intimacy in your marriage - EVEN with kids! Hey, I’m Jennifer. A wife, mom of two littles, and a daughter of the King. For the first three years of our marriage, my husband and I struggled to connect. You see, my man is one of the most laid-back people I know, and I felt like if I didn’t take control in our home, things would fall apart., We don’t live in the same country as our families, so we do not have the luxury of dropping the kids at grandma’s house so we can go on dates, or even have a break. This left me stressed, burnt out, angry and resentful. Which only made us pull further away from each other. I finally decided to surrender and seek God’s guidance. Through the help of the Holy Spirit, I realised I was carrying too much. The pressure and weight on my shoulders was causing a strain in my marriage. And what happened next FLOORED me! I felt emotionally safe to voice my needs. My husband stepped up, and he started to take the initiative in our family and our marriage. This has helped make space for us to spend more quality time together - without kids, TV, or scrolling on our phones. We are back to being best friends with ALL the benefits! No more being roommates, baby!! Friend, I want the same for you too. If you desire to have quality time with your husband, without the kids shouting “Mom. Mom. Mom.” for the hundredth time today, and you want to turn off, and not feel like you are carrying the weight of the whole family on your shoulders, this podcast is for you! Grab your favourite drink and let’s hang out!
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Do you feel like there’s a wall between you and your husband? Is he avoidant and disinterested in trying in your marriage? Like no matter how hard you try to connect, he avoids deep conversation, shuts down emotionally, or just scrolls on his phone instead of spending time with you?
Girl, you’re not alone—and you’re not crazy for wanting more.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing 5 powerful, practical tips you can start using today to begin breaking down the emotional walls and heal your marriage from that painful disconnection. We’re talking about real tools that will help you connect on a deeper level—physically, spiritually, and emotionally—even if your husband is the avoidant one.
If you’re craving intimacy, this one’s for you 💛
Monday Jun 30, 2025
Monday Jun 30, 2025
Ever wonder if your husband truly sees you? Not just notice that you got your hair done, but see the physical and mental load you are carrying and appreciate you for it. Or better yet, steps up to ease your burden? I am going to be sharing practical tools you can use to have a deeper emotional connection with your man so that he sees you and you feel heard - without nagging, chasing, or shutting down.
If you’re longing to feel known, safe, and seen in your marriage… this one’s for you, girl. 💛
Get in touch:📩 Email: info@jenniferfanning.co Related episodes:
05 | 5 Things To Start Doing Now To Build an Enjoyable & Godly Marriage in 2025
09 | From Roommate to LOVERS!! 5 Ways to Pour Into Your Marriage During a Busy Season as a Godly Wife
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Do you ever feel like you’re always on—juggling everything for everyone while running on fumes?
You’re pouring into your kids, your husband, your home, your job... and by the end of the day, there’s nothing left for you. You’re physically tired, emotionally spent, and spiritually disconnected. But still, you can’t seem to turn off.
Girl, you are not meant to live like this.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing 3 intentional routines that will help you make space for real rest—the kind that restores your mind, body, and soul, and invites God into the middle of your everyday chaos.
If you’re desperate to slow down, reconnect with God, and show up for your marriage with something more than empty energy and resentment… this is for you.
Wednesday Jun 18, 2025
Wednesday Jun 18, 2025
Is your laid-back husband leaving all the decisions—and the pressure—on your shoulders, girl? 😩 You’re craving connection and spiritual leadership, but instead you feel overwhelmed and always “on.”
In this episode, I’m sharing 4 simple, powerful sentences that will help:✨ Invite him into leadership✨ Spark more intimacy and quality time✨ Lighten your mental and emotional load
If you’re longing for your husband to lead more in your marriage and these phrases are for you.
I pray this encourages you.
👇 Join the Community + Get In Touch💛 Facebook Group: https://bit.ly/connectedwife 📩 Email: info@jenniferfanning.co
Monday May 26, 2025
Monday May 26, 2025
Is your phone lowkey ruining your marriage? 😬Girl, you're not alone — in this episode, we're having a real heart-to-heart about the sneaky ways social media and screen time are stealing from your marriage. This one's convicting and freeing!
💬 In this episode, we talk about:✅ 5 sneaky ways your phone is causing more harm than good✅ Why social media is making you feel disconnected and discontent✅ How to set healthy phone boundaries in marriage (without being extreme!)✅ Simple habits to help you be more present at home
✨ This episode will help you feel less distracted, more intentional, and way more connected with your man — starting today.
Let’s unplug to reconnect, girl. Your marriage is worth it. 💛
I pray it encourages you.
📧 Get in touch: info@jenniferfanning.co
Next Steps: 📝 Want to receive my weekly devotionals? Download the FREE Prayer Journal for Your Marriage to join my email list: https://jenniferfanning.systeme.io/prayerjournal
💛 Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theprayerfulwife
Monday May 19, 2025
Monday May 19, 2025
In today’s episode of The Prayerful Wife Podcast, we’re having a heart-to-heart about something many wives do without even realising it - bashing their husbands in conversations with friends, sisters, or even their mommas. Sis, it might feel harmless at the moment, but those words have power - and today, we’re talking about a better way.
Join me as we break down:
✅ Why venting can quietly tear down your marriage (and what Proverbs says about it) ✅ How to set boundaries with the people closest to you ✅ The importance of protecting your husband’s image - even when you’re upset ✅ How prayer can prepare you for hard conversations and girl-time chats ✅ The subtle trap of gossip and how to guard your heart from it ✅ PLUS: a bonus tip that’ll help you gracefully change the topic when convos get messy 👀
If you’re ready to grow as a godly wife and protect your marriage from casual negativity, this one’s for you! 🎙️
I pray it encourages you.
📧 Get in touch: info@jenniferfanning.co
Next Steps: 📝 Want to receive my weekly devotionals? Download the FREE Prayer Journal for Your Marriage to join my email list: https://jenniferfanning.systeme.io/prayerjournal
💛 Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theprayerfulwife
Monday May 12, 2025
Monday May 12, 2025
Hey sis, I see you. You’re trying to hold your marriage together while your husband seems resentful, stressed, or constantly angry. You want to help, but you feel drained, confused, and maybe even a little hopeless.
I’ve been there too. And in this episode, I’m sharing the truth, encouragement, and Biblical wisdom that helped me navigate those tough seasons..
In this episode, we’ll cover: 💛 4 grace-filled ways to respond to your husband’s pain, stress or anger 💛 3 heart-level shifts you can make as a Biblical wife (without carrying the weight of his emotions) 💛 Why it’s not your job to “fix” him — and how to let God lead 💛 How to know when it’s time to seek help or set boundaries for your safety 💛 Scriptures to anchor you in truth when your emotions want to take over
I pray this encourages you.
🎧 Listen now and don’t forget to: • Follow or subscribe to the show • Leave a rating and review if this episode encouraged you • Share it with another wife who might need this truth today
📧 Get in touch: info@jenniferfanning.co
Next Steps: 📝 Want to receive my weekly devotionals? Download the FREE Prayer Journal for Your Marriage to join my email list: 👉 https://jenniferfanning.systeme.io/prayerjournal
💛 Join the Facebook Community: 👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/theprayerfulwife
Monday May 05, 2025
Monday May 05, 2025
In today’s episode, we’re talking about something every Christian wife faces at some point — conflict in marriage. If you’ve ever wondered how to handle disagreements in a way that honors God and strengthens your relationship, this one's for you! I’m sharing practical, heart-centered strategies rooted in Scripture to help you navigate tough moments with grace, patience, and love. Grab your coffee and join me for a real, encouraging conversation about growing closer even when tensions rise.
👉🏽 Tune in for biblical encouragement, real talk, and simple steps you can start using today!
I pray it encourages you.
📧 Get in touch: info@jenniferfanning.co
Next Steps:
📝 Want to receive my weekly devotionals?Download the FREE Prayer Journal for Your Marriage to join my email list: https://jenniferfanning.systeme.io/prayerjournal
💛 Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theprayerfulwife
Monday Apr 28, 2025
Monday Apr 28, 2025
📝 Want to receive my weekly devotionals?Download the FREE Prayer Journal for Your Marriage to join my email list: https://jenniferfanning.systeme.io/prayerjournal In today’s episode of The Prayerful Wife Podcast, we’re talking about how to fall BACK IN LOVE with your husband as a Godly wife—even when you're unequally yoked. It’s easy to feel distant from your spouse, but with the right mindset and practical steps, you can reignite your marriage and love each other more deeply.
I pray it encourages you.
📧 Get in touch: info@jenniferfanning.co
Next Steps:
📝 Want to receive my weekly devotionals?Download the FREE Prayer Journal for Your Marriage to join my email list: https://jenniferfanning.systeme.io/prayerjournal
💛 Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theprayerfulwife
Monday Apr 21, 2025
Monday Apr 21, 2025
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[Limited spots available]Hey there, welcome to The Prayerful Wife Podcast! In this episode, I’m sharing 6 simple but powerful steps to practice grace and forgiveness in your marriage, especially if you’re a Christian wife married to an unbeliever. I know that being married to someone who doesn’t share your faith can be challenging, but with God’s help, we can navigate those tough moments with grace and love.
In this episode, I’ll walk you through how to:
✅ Feel your emotions without letting them control you
✅ Pray for your husband (even when it’s hard!)
✅ Shift your focus to the things you love about him
✅ Let go of past hurts and move forward in peace
If you’re struggling with marriage challenges or feeling frustrated as a Christian wife, I hope this episode will encourage you and remind you that God is with you every step of the way. You don’t need a perfect marriage — just a God-centered marriage filled with grace, forgiveness, and love.
Grab a cup of coffee (or tea) and join me as we dive into some practical, Biblical wisdom for marriage, helping you show more grace and love to your husband, no matter the obstacles.
I pray it encourages you.
📧 Get in touch: info@jenniferfanning.co
Next Steps:
📝 Want to receive my weekly devotionals?Download the FREE Prayer Journal for Your Marriage to join my email list: https://jenniferfanning.systeme.io/prayerjournal
💛 Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theprayerfulwife